As the unending reports of Tiger’s Woods’ purported dalliances continue to unravel, philanderers of all stripes are taking stock. Even those who never much worried about getting caught, now worry that Tiger’s self-indulgence is giving extramarital sex a bad name.
I, for one, refuse to pass judgment upon the private issues between spouses or the conditions under which infidelity is triggered. At the same time, I am convinced that most of the public has missed two central issues: the first is that fidelity is not necessarily part of a person’s DNA.
Restraint against self-indulgence at the expense of others is a cognitive decision based upon either one’s basic belief system or on the fear of losing something more important than momentary delight in the success of a risky conquest. .
This week’s People Reading Workshop at Eolis Institute for People Reading puts the onus on YOU to take responsibility for decoding the behavior of a spouse and making conscious decisions about whether fidelity is a big deal to you.
The two-hour work shop uses to key principles in Eolis 12 Step People Reading System to put you on the right track to discerning and responding to lapses in infidelity—from the bedroom to the boardroom!